How to Choose a Surrogacy Agency in Texas

What Surrogacy Agencies Do

A surrogacy agency acts as the central coordinator for your entire journey. They screen and select gestational carriers, coordinate legal and medical professionals, manage escrow accounts, and provide support from your first consultation through birth and beyond.

Working with an agency is especially valuable for first-time intended parents and for LGBT+ families who need an agency with specific experience navigating parental rights in Texas.

What to Look For in an Agency

• Experience with LGBT+ families — The agency should have a proven track record working with gay couples, lesbian couples, and single parents by choice.
• Transparent pricing — All fees should be clearly outlined upfront. Ask for a written cost breakdown before signing.
• Thorough surrogate screening — Medical, psychological, background, and home environment checks should be standard.
• Legal expertise — The agency should work with (or recommend) attorneys experienced in Texas reproductive law.
• Ongoing support — Look for agencies that stay involved throughout the pregnancy, not just during the initial setup.
• Success rates and references — Ask about completed journeys and whether they can connect you with past clients.

Questions to Ask Agencies

Before committing to an agency, schedule consultations with at least two or three. Here are key questions to ask:

1. How many surrogacy journeys have you completed for LGBT+ families?
2. What is your surrogate screening process?
3. Can you provide a detailed cost breakdown?
4. What happens if the first embryo transfer doesn't work?
5. How do you handle complications during pregnancy?
6. What legal support is included in your fees?
7. How long does it typically take to be connected with a surrogate?
8. Can I speak with past clients for references?
9. What happens if the surrogate and I aren't a good fit?
10. What fees are refundable if the journey doesn't proceed?

Red Flags to Watch For

• Vague or hidden fees — If the agency can't give you a clear cost breakdown, that's a warning sign.
• Pressure to sign quickly — A reputable agency will give you time to review contracts and consult with your own attorney.
• No references from LGBT+ clients — If they claim to be LGBT+ friendly but can't provide references, be cautious.
• Minimal surrogate screening — Cutting corners on screening puts everyone at risk.
• No escrow account — Funds should always be held in a third-party escrow, never directly by the agency.
• Guarantees of success — No ethical agency guarantees a baby. Surrogacy involves medical uncertainty.

LGBT+ Specific Considerations

As an LGBT+ intended parent in Texas, your agency choice matters even more. Here's what to prioritize:

• Legal navigation — Texas surrogacy law (Family Code Chapter 160) was written for married heterosexual couples. Your agency should know how to navigate parentage orders for same-sex couples and unmarried individuals.
• Surrogate comfort — The agency should ensure all their surrogates are comfortable working with LGBT+ families.
• Egg donor coordination — Gay couples and single men need egg donors. Your agency should have established relationships with egg donor agencies or banks.
• Cultural sensitivity — The entire team — coordinators, social workers, and support staff — should be welcoming and experienced.

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